We bet that at this point and time in your life, you’ve had the privilege of dating a multitude of women. You might even be the “ladies man” of your group of gentlemen. Your exploits are the stuff of legend. We know…we know.
However, we also bet that you have dug yourself a bit of a hole when it comes to the variety of women that you have and are currently dating.
It’s the dating equivalent of that comfortable old t-shirt or your favorite pair of shorts that you slip into every day once your daily grind has come to an end.
We completely understand that. There’s nothing quite like the comforts of home. After all, that’s one of the few places where we can truly be ourselves. Maybe you’re a Grammy worthy singer in your shower or you like to snuggle with your cat, Mr. Tinkles.
Whatever your personal routine might be at home, it’s the last thing you actually want in your dating life. Sure, those shorts are comfortable but it’s also very nice to turn a few heads in that suit that fits your body just perfectly. (If it’s not fitting perfectly check out these 3 must do exercises.)
You’re probably getting the point of what we want to tell you about here. While you’re in the dating “scene” or whatever you want to call it, you need to make sure that you sample some of the best of what womankind has to offer.
Get outside your comfort zone and try out one of the ladies on this list. You might just find that your preferences have evolved a bit. If not, at least you will have some new life experiences to put in your memoirs.
1. The Alpha Female
This is a no-nonsense, take charge type of woman who is used to the “work hard and play hard” way of life. This is the woman who finished college a year early and has steadily climbed the corporate ladder. She’s not afraid to get what she wants and is willing to break a few proverbial eggs in the process.
Dating the Alpha Female can be a bit of an adventure. If you are an Alpha yourself, be prepared for constant conflict with this one. The two of you will constantly be in competition to be on top, which might not be a bad thing when you really think about it.
In the bedroom, she takes just as much charge as she does in her daily life. She won’t be afraid to tell you what she does and doesn’t like. While this might be a little difficult at first, especially for those of you who aren’t used to an aggressive woman, it will lead to some fantastic sex in the long run.
The drawback to the Alpha is that she is a busy woman and it’s tough to get some quality alone time with her. She fits best with guys who are laidback and easygoing.
2. The Tomboy
This girl is happy to be one of the guys. Odds are she might have been an athlete at one point in time in her life and she’s probably cool to hang out on the weekend and watch sports.
She’s rough and tumble, and she’ll probably punch you at least a few times when the two of you hang out. She’s also likely very much into fitness so be prepared for that.
Keep in mind though, even the most devoted tomboy is still a woman deep down, so you can’t treat her completely like one of the guys.
The best part of the tomboy is that she likes to be physical. She will think nothing of having a few beers with you, watch the game and then enjoy some naked, adult games of your own for the rest of the night.
This woman can easily suck you into a long term relationship, simply because she is so fun and easy to be around. Don’t blame us if you suddenly find yourself with a girlfriend.
3. The Free Spirit
This woman will throw you off a little, especially if you’re the typical man who likes schedules, road maps and structure. The Free Spirit does not live her life that way. She is creative, adventurous, spiritual, spontaneous and lets herself go wherever the day might take her.
She is probably well-travelled and hasn’t had too many long term relationships. She’s a bit of a gypsy as well. She wants to be inspired by you and will take you for a journey you’re not soon to forget.
The Free Spirit can be a tough one to pin down for a LTR if that’s what your end goal is. The good news is that while she’s experiencing you, she’s totally game for anything and everything you might want to do, both in and out of the bedroom.
4. The Lover
This woman is affectionate from day one. She likes to touch and hug and kiss and expects you to do the same. She’s all about making connections with people and is very in tune with herself and the energy of those around her.
She will help you learn how to be a better communicator. She needs people who are good communicators and she will teach you how to best meet that need. If you don’t stay with her, you will definitely leave with a better skillset for dating women than you did before.
Since she is so into connections, the sex with her will be mind blowing. She will probably be one of the best partners you’ve ever had.
The only drawback to The Lover is that she will be very into you from the start, which can be both exciting and hard to deal with. Only you can decide if this is a woman you want long term or short term. She will be hurt if your connection to one another begins to fade.
5. The Perfect 10
For one reason or another, beauty, brains, money, all of the above, this woman is someone that is seemingly beyond your reach. These are women that tend to date professional athletes, authors, politicians and men of power.
They are very well-put together and will make you the envy of almost any man who crosses your path. Her beauty will stun you, and her intelligent sense of humor will make you instantly fall head over heels.
Just remember, just because she seems out of your league doesn’t mean much. Anyone can learn how to comfortably talk to very attractive women. If you can satisfy this woman, emotionally and intellectually, you’ll have hit the relationship jackpot. She is a little elusive and it might take time to pin this one down, but you’ll be glad you did.
With the Perfect 10, confidence will be the key that trumps everything else. Be secure in who you are and what you have to offer and you’ll be somewhere you never thought possible.
There are many more women we could add to the list, but these five are some of the ones you should try for yourself today. Life’s about experience, go and live a little.